Me-Christianity vs God-Christianity (What side you on?)

By Steven Shaw 

Me-Christianity vs God-Christianity-Is your relationship with Jesus mainly about you, or Jesus?

This is the question we need to ask ourselves every day. Am I a “Me-Centered Christian” or a “God-Centered Christian?”

How you read the Bible will determine the answer.

What is a Me-Centered Christian?

A type of Christianity that is all about you, not God. These people love talking about God, the Bible, going to church, etc, but all these things are centered on themselves to make their life happy and comfortable. They use the bible to make themselves feel good about their lives. Bible verses out of context are extremely dangerous.

Example of out of context verses:

1. Jeremiah 29:11– For I know the plans I have for you, “declares the Lord,” plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you a hope and a future.

Out of context, this means: God wants me to have the things I want. He only gives me things that make me happy for my life. Comfort and success are His desire for me. Self-focused.

In context, this means: God has just sent His people into exile. He tells them in verses 5-10, “Build houses, plant gardens, get married, have children, let them grow and have children.” Basically, you’re going to be there a while. 70 years to be exact. Then “I will come for you,” says God. Then you read verse 11…

Wow, how much more does that verse mean in context? It’s much deeper and all about God when reading correctly. God is saying, “Even though I’m sending you into exile, I am with you always, this is my plan for you and it’s good. I will redeem you. You have a future and a hope in Me. God-focused.

2. Philippians 4:13– I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.

Out of context, this means: This can mean anything you want, that’s the danger. Whatever I want to do, God will bless. Self-focused.

In context, this means: Paul is writing this from prison.Paul doesn’t write this, feel empowered and kick down the prison walls because “God will give me the power.” It’s about trusting God in life’s difficulties. It’s obedience to God and service to God and others. Being in God’s will, he will give you the power to follow through when you are completely weak and dependent on Him. God-focused.

These are just 2 examples. There are many more.

People are reading the whole bible out of context. Reading it with their “me” glasses on. This misses the whole point of what the bible is about. The bible is about God, not you. This is idolatry. That’s no small deal. Me-Centered Christianity is not Christianity. Idolatry is when we live for anything else that is not God. God is not a bigger version of you. True Christianity is not about what God gives us, it’s about God himself.

What is God-Centered Christianity? 

True Christianity is focused on God in everything. Everything we do, speak and desire revolves around Him.

Examples of God-Centered Christianity:

  1. The Apostle Paul writes, “But whatever gain I had, I counted as loss for the sake of Christ. Indeed, I count everything as loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord. For his sake I have suffered the loss of all things and count them as rubbish, in order that I may gain Christ and be found in him, not having a righteousness of my own that comes from the law, but that which comes through faith in Christ, the righteousness from God that depends on faith, that I may know him and the power of his resurrection, and may share his sufferings, becoming like him in his death, that by any means possible I may attain the resurrection from the dead.” Philippians 3:7-11

Paul had it all before his walk with Christ. Now he’s dedicated his life to God and he’s in prison and eventually will be killed. And yet he still writes this. Paul is centered on God.

  1. King David writes, “One thing I ask from the Lord, this only do I seek: that I may dwell in the house of the Lord and seek him in his temple.” Psalm 27:4

David didn’t want God’s stuff or anything from God, his only desire is God himself. Is that your only desire?

  1. This is the Christian Life in One Sentence. “So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God.” 1 Corinthians 10:31

All you do! From the smallest most boring things to the biggest, most wonderful things, ALL TO THE GLORY OF GOD!

Why is This Good?

This is our purpose. From the beginning, this is what we were created and saved for. HIM!

This is the World’s Need.

The world needs to see God in us. We might be the only version of Christ one might ever see. What example are you?

This is What We Need.

Nothing we do in this life will satisfy us. Only God can. We will fail to be what God is.

How Do I Live a God-Centered Life?

  1. Repent. Turn from your old life and live through the power of the Holy Spirit. You cannot be a Christian and live the same life you once lived.
  2. Trust in Jesus as Your Savior. Jesus is the only way to salvation.
  3. Read the Bible With Your Eyes on God, Not on You. Read it in context.

When you are reading, ask yourself 3 questions. It will help you keep your eyes on God.

What is this saying about God?

What is God doing?

Lastly- How do I respond to all God has revealed?

You Can’t Glorify God in Everything You Do If Everything You Do is to Glorify You.


Please don’t let my word be the final word on this. Pick up the bible, read Gospel-saturated books by good authors, read commentaries on the Bible, pick up Wayne Grudem’s “Systematic Theology” and learn from a man’s lifetime of study and meditation on the Word of God. Most of all, trust in Jesus Christ and know what He has given us is whole, perfect and is for our good and his glory. Love you all!

The grace of the Lord Jesus be with all. Amen.



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